10 Foreplay Ideas to Spice Things Up
Foreplay is more than just a warm-up—it’s an experience in itself. Done right, it sets the stage for trust, excitement, and deeper intimacy. Whether you’re looking to reconnect with your partner or add an extra spark to your routine, these 10 ideas will inspire you to keep things fun, sensual, and exciting.
We’ve even included real-life testimonials from readers who’ve tried these tips and had those “ah-ha” moments. And yes, we’ll show you how to make things even more exciting by incorporating products like sensual lingerie, clitoral toys, and more. 😉
1. Start Outside the Bedroom
Foreplay doesn’t have to begin with a kiss or a touch—it starts with anticipation. A flirty message, a brush of the hand, or even a suggestive note can ignite the spark hours before you hit the sheets.
Testimonial:
“I started slipping cheeky notes into my husband’s pocket or leaving texts hinting at what I wanted later. By the time we were alone, the chemistry was undeniable.” – Sandra
Add a playful twist: Try a remote-controlled vibrator like during date night for extra sizzle.
2. Engage All the Senses
Taste, touch, scent, and sound can turn the mundane into magic. Use strawberries, chocolate, or edible lubricating oil to tantalize taste buds. Add in a blindfold or silky scarves for sensory play.
Testimonial:
“We turned off the lights, lit a candle, and guessed what we were feeding each other. It was funny, sweet, and thrilling at the same time.” – Marcus
Pro Tip: Use scented massage oils or aromatherapy candles to create an intimate mood.
3. Use Compliments as Foreplay
Words have immense power. Tell your partner how stunning they look in your favorite red lingerie or how their touch makes you melt.
Testimonial:
“My boyfriend whispered why he loves every part of my body, focusing on it while using a feather tickler. I’ve never felt so adored.” – Leah
Take it up a notch: Pair words with actions using clitoral vibrators or a feather tickler to make things unforgettable.
4. Play Games Together
Foreplay doesn’t have to be serious—it can be fun! Sexy dice, card games, or “truth or dare” are perfect for keeping things exciting.
Testimonial:
“We wrote down fantasies on pieces of paper, took turns drawing them out, and acted them out. It added an unpredictable and playful edge.” – Alex and Jamie
Make it even hotter: Add in a sensual wager—winner chooses the next toy to try out!
5. Relive Firsts
Recreate those “firsts” together—like where you shared your first kiss or date. Nostalgia can bring a fresh romantic spark to the bedroom.
Testimonial:
“We went back to our first date spot, and the memories made it feel like falling in love again.” – Sam
Want to try something new? Pick out a new toy together at a store or browse options like dildos or vibrators online.
6. Add Technology to the Mix
Apps and remote-controlled toys are a great way to stay connected—even if you’re apart. They’re also perfect for adding variety to your routine.
Testimonial:
“I was stuck on a work trip, but using our set made me feel like we were together. It brought us so much closer emotionally.” – Mia
Explore futuristic fun: Try sex-tech apps that allow you to control sensations across the room or even miles apart.
7. Turn Massages into Intimate Adventures
A massage can be sensual when done right. Use warming massage oils, aromatic candles, or a vibrating massage tool. Focus on more than just the back—touch arms, hands, legs, and feet for a full-body experience.
Testimonial:
“My partner gave me a 30-minute massage with no expectations. It was the most intimate moment we’d had in weeks.” – Carla
Bonus tip: Textured gloves or silky fabrics can elevate your massage game.
8. Bring Humor into the Bedroom
Laughter can lighten any mood and make closeness feel effortless. Why not try a funny roleplay scenario or a playful “sexy dance”?
Testimonial:
“We invented a ridiculous sexy dance one night and ended up laughing so much—it was the best night we’ve had in a long time.” – Emma
Idea: Make a playful “bet” with a naughty prize at the end.
9. Experiment with Roleplay
Spice things up by stepping into a fantasy—whether it’s pretending to meet for the first time or playing out roles you’ve always dreamed about.
Testimonial:
“I pretended to be a stranger at a café, and my husband came and ‘picked me up.’ It was fun and flirty, like reliving our courtship.” – Nina
Pro Tip: Use props like handcuffs, blindfolds, or sexy lingerie to make the roleplay even more enticing.
10. Slow Down and Savor
Sometimes the most powerful way to connect with your partner is to take your time. Kiss slowly, tease deliberately, and enjoy every moment. Use texture, temperature, and rhythms to enhance the experience.
Testimonial:
“We decided to see how long we could just kiss. It was electric, and it changed the vibe completely.” – Jacob
Try it: Add ice cubes, feathered tools, or temperature-sensitive toys to explore new sensations.
Final Thoughts
Foreplay is all about deepening your connection with your partner while having fun. From playful games to sensory adventures, there are countless ways to spark excitement.
Trying something this week? Share your story in the comments—we’d love to hear your experiences! Or, explore our collection of sexy lingerie, lubricating oils, and couples’ toys to make your next date night unforgettable.
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